Our expert says:
OMG, I should take a week off work to read this long one !
All gneralizations are untrue, except for this one. There is NOTHING that "all men" orall women" are. We differ, and over-generalize when we may have had more than one unfortunate experience of he same broad type.
That said, you are describing a common but not universal pattern, what was called " he triumph of hope over experience", and the mystery of why people who are physically or mentally or fiancially abused too often, though competent and independent in other ways, keep forgiving heir abuser, and accept being treated horribly.
Do they have low self-esteem, perhaps related to how they were treated when younger, such that they feel they somehow don't deserve to be treated any better ? Do they feel so unloveable that even intermitent affection or attention from a beast feels like its as much as they deserve ? Do they feel so terified at the prospect of being alone, that they feel they must accept all bad treatment rather than be alone ?
And do they have such a desperate need to be in Loooove, that they will pay any price to maintain even these pathetic exploitative relationships ? Are they like folks who lose millions gambling or in investments, because they dare not admit they were wrong, and feel stubbornly that they have invested so much in the repeatedly losing relaonshp ( emotional gamble or investment ) that they hang in their convincing themselves that it will eventually turn out to be profitable ?
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