Our expert says:
Recovering after an affair can be a very difficult for any relationship. it is normal for you to feel betrayed, hurt, angry, used and unloved. it is aslso normal for you to carry these feelings to the bedroom which is why you are'nt enjoying sex anymor.However, if you have decided to forgive him than it is also up to you to be able to move on from the affair. Needless to say that if he wants your forgiveness and love and for your marriage to work, than he also needs to be supportive of you during this time. Many relationships do recover after an affair, but it is not easy. You need to be able to forgive and learn to trust him again. At the same time he needs to understand that he needs to earn your trust. this will not happen overnight so your'l will have to be patient. Be prepared to go back to basics (holding hands, kissing, fondling and when your'e comfortable doing these than move on to sex).. it would be very advisable for you and your partner to speak to a psychologist or a couple's counsellor to aid your'l in this process.
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