He sounds, frankly, clumsy and inexperienced, and he may fondly and mistakenly imagine that he's a clever and passionate lover. You seem, perhaps based on previous experience, to feel so sure that he will inevitably be awfully offended. Can't you just calmly and pleasantly, say to him that tough you appreciate that he has strong feelings, you find his kisses to be painful, almost as though he was biting you - and you're sure this isn't what he intends, and you'd really like him to be softer and more gentle, as that's such a greater turn-on for any woman.
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