Our expert says:
Shame, one can understand his list, but it sounds so materialist. I wonder whether his dad or someone else may have encouraged him to draw it up ? Of course it would be unfortunate if his father were to encourage him to form racist attitudes ; but with cultural differences, to be one of the very few white kids in an otherwise black class ( or one of the few black kids in a mainly white class ) can surely feel awkward.
You're right not to make him feel guilty for making this choice - and he may change his mind some time in the future.
I hope you told your psychiatrist about this whole issue ; he might have decided to postpone the wall breaking until a bit later if he knew there were other major problems very current at the time.
Make sure he knows now just how despairing and vulnerable you feel, so he cal help you to deal with this
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