Our expert says:
Rather than concentrate on the stories and lying, shouldn't one concentrate on why they don't want to go there, and even respect their wishes ?
The father should stop being so cowardly and intervene for the benefit of his kids.
And suggest that they remember to write down each weeks lies. People forget that its hard enough to remember the truth, let alone lies.
If there was a court decision about how the kids would spend their time, maybe the court would need to be approached to change those rules to fit what the kids want and what would best benefit them. If its justy informally arranged, its easier to change, and the dad should try being a father rather than a wuss. And at least encourage the kids to talk to their dad about why they don't want to be with their biomom ( there could be good or even sinister reasons ) and how they want him to be a real dad and help them about this.
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