Our expert says:
Some relationships are actual, live, ongoing, interactions, some are more of a habit. But if they have now recognized at least some of their problems, and are prepared to work on them and try to resolve them - why are they trying to do this all on their own, rather than with the help of a relationship counsellor ( eg through FAMSA ) ?
I think I understand what is worrying you, but in a way, despite the lack of a formal marriage so far, this is an old couple, and its fair to expect them to enjoy the comfortableness of their relationship as any couple married for 9 tears might, rather than the breathless joy of a fresh relationship, which this is not !
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