Our expert says:
Idon't think you're a loser ; more likely that he is. And his not contating you is more likely to be because when he sobered up, he realized what he had done, and feels ashamed of himself, as he should. Dinner is one thing, but going home for more wine may have given him the impression that you wanted or at least were open to far more than wine. That was a really bad idea all round. I understand why Hope* is puzzled by this story.
You say it is not unusual for THEM to be at your home--- yes, THEM, not HIm, alone, drunk, and with more wine, surely ? You may well have led him on, to a point, and it is important for you to recognize this. BUT exactly as you say, NO is ALWAYS NO, and should always be respected as such. And yes, real men should respect that, and are less than men when they don't
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