Our expert says:
No long-distance relationship is easy, especially if this situation continues for long.
If she has cheated twice despite promising not to do so, this doesn't look promising. These are two episodes of cheating you KNOW about, maybe there were more. ( Apparently she doesn't know you have cheated for instance ).
Its entirely understandable that you have difficulty trusting her. But I don' see how this situation can be solved while you are far apart. And marrying in order to get together, but without having resolved the issues isn't wise, either. Couples counselling could help, but wwould need you both to be in the same place at the same time, for a few sessions. Do you even get together if you could take leave at the same time ?
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