Our expert says:
There's no reason why you can't be popular (though being popular is often not as terrific as you assume it will be, when you think you're not popular), Popularity based on looks is shallow and superficial and doesn't actually count for much (none of those pals would rush round in the middle of the night if she were sick) And if she is nasty, maybe people pretend to like her because they're scared of her, but who would be dumb enough to like someone like her ?
Also, of course, her looks will fade, whereas your pleasant apearance and personality can last much longer.
Its fascinating to wonder what you find to feel jealous about a woman who does NOT have a great husband like you, and who has instead someone who deliberately ran her over ?
Sounds like she works awfully hard to make it look as though she's having a great time. That's sad.
Do invest in seeing a counsellor, preferably one using the CBT method, to get your thinking right, to learn how to enjoy all that you do have, rather than ignoring all that to pine for what she SEEMS to have.
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