Our expert says:
A healthy sexual relationship should aim to satisfy both parties. The fact that there is almost a turn-fighting going on (power play) is not constructive for a long term relationship. If you just continue the way it is now you are taking a risk of developing an under tone of resentment or infidelity and that will in any case be destructive to the sexual relationship. By the sound of it you could benefit from consulting with a psychologist that works specifically with sexual concerns and couple counseling. Sexual relationship should have a nature of satisfying both partners without power play and fighting being at its centre.
You are welcome to phone our helpline – 0860100262 where you could be assisted in finding a practitioner as close as possible to you.
Furthermore you are welcome to visit the following website for any more sexual health information and assignments that could be helpful: www.sexualhealth.co.za
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