Our expert says:
Communication is not possible now and recently, or was never possible ? If it's never, then presumably you accepted or put up with this until recently, and something changed this. You don't say how old he is, but older people tend to be more rigid and more reluctant to change.
It makes no sense to say he loves and cares for you but doesn't want to see you in the house. See if the family member can not only help promote better communication between you, when you get together this-evening, but to try to encourage him to join you in marriage counselling, even if it helps to let him think of it mainly as a process to help him manage whatever bothers him about you, with an emphasis on you changing, as he may be unlikely to start it thinking he needs to change at all
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