Our expert says:
Women ca't have it both ways - you can't expect the privileges, independence, responsibilities and opportunities of a modern woman, and still preserve an ancient custom like men paying for everything. It is easy to understand why your bf was hurt - you have been happy for years to have him pay everything for you, and more recently to pay for you and your son by another father, but when you decide to pay for DSTV, you want to go to extra trouble to switch if off so this guy can't watch it except when your boy is there ? Can't you see how mean and selfish ( and ungrateful ) that looked ?
Couples counseling would be a really good investment for both of you.
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