Posted by: Trish | 2009-08-17


I would like your opinion on the ffg problem i had over the weekend.

i have a very long and intense relationship with my ex. its been 10 years now and over these years i felt that we had a fairly good relationship. We talked and laughed and shared with each other more than anybody else in our lives. This weekend he used another cellphone on a prepaid number to sms me and say some really horrible things.I know its him because i traced the phone and number. Making refernce to things that have happend in my life , unwise decisions and a whole lot of things . Swore at me and told me im a user. i replied back to him and said i know who it is. and still it carries on . today i recieve a call and he is all jolly and like nothin is happening behind the scenes. What would drive a person to do such a thing ? is he perhaps a phsyco? or is this deeper issues that he has and felt he couldnt talk to me abt it?

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I wonder how you traced the phone and number, if it was a prepaid new phone. Sounds sinister. I'd have thought the quotes about events known only to the pair of you would be the give-away, in which case why would he bother to try to hide his identity ? If he is blowing hot and cold, friendly, ugly, and then friendly, (a) are you really sure the message was from him ( could he have told the details to someone else, and perhaps whoever he is with right now had sent that message ? ) and (b) what does he say when you ask him directly but pleasantly, about it ? This is odd, but no psycho as such.

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