Our expert says:
People differ and it is important to deal with each person as an individual. From what you are explaining he might be battling with a condition that we refer to as “Premature ejaculation”. Losing his erection quickly after orgasm links up with this condition. The most significant underlying factor for that is often performance stress. The more anxious the person becomes the more difficult it is to prolong the sex process. It be worth it for you and your boyfriend to explore some of the sexual assignments on our website – called sensate focus techniques (www.sexualhealth.co.za). Furthermore you could also explore “kegel exercises for me” (google it) – the exercises are specifically targeting the muscles involved with orgasm to assist the person to gain some control over those muscles.
You are welcome to phone our helpline – 0860100262 where you could be assisted in finding a practitioner as close as possible to you.
Furthermore you are welcome to visit the following website for any more sexual health information and assignments that could be helpful: www.sexualhealth.co.za
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