Our expert says:
Workplace health expert
Could be that you ARE too sensitive to ensuring all will like you and that there inevitably may be confrontation. You appear to almost expect the secretary not to listen to you. If you are indeed the nice guy, play the role,include the other player(s) in your planning, ask for opinion suggestions - always remain the manager and be assertive when required. Be careful that your interpretation of assertion is not seen by others as aggression.
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