Our expert says:
This is a tough one as it can have consequences any which way you choose. It also depends on what he knows about you, e.g if he thinks he is marrying a virgin, the shock may be too big... My mother-in-law always says: "'n man moet alles eet en nie alles weet" (a man must eat everything, but does not have to know about everything!) Honesty however can save embarrassment later - you never know when some one either innocently or maliciously discloses that to him. The best is to stay true to your value system and make a decision accordingly. If you stay with your value system, you can live with yourself! Deidre -SASHA
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