Our expert says:
I understand that in some cultural traditions, pregnancy before marriage is accepted - but whatever the cultural beliefs,it is not wise to have a baby with any guy until you know each other well enough to know that you DO plan to stay together and marry or otherwise form a long-lasting partnershuip.
If you give a man all he wants, sex, child, home, etc, he can gind he is very comfortable as things are and sees no benefits for himself in mariage.
A couple who are ready to have a child together should already have formed JOINT plans, for their joint futures - anything else is unfair to both ( but especially the woman ) and unfair to the child, too.
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