Posted by: Just wondering | 2009-09-30

Is it possible

How important is sex - i have been dating my gf for a while, the sex sucks - i know and she knows it too. i have tried to make it better but it just boils down to issues i have no control over. We love each other and lately we have been thinking about marriage. the only thing that does not balance in this whole equation is sex but i reckon maybe sex is not that much of a bigger deal.

can people have a good marriage without good sex - ?

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sex is not the be all and end all but it is nevertheless an important part of any relationship especially if the couple are young. it serves as a means of sharing and expressing intimacy and even if you dont feel its very important, your partner might think otherwise. i would advice that your'l seek the expertise of a sexual health counsellor/couples counsellor or sexologist to help identify reasons for the poor sex life (maybe u do have control over it and something can be done about it.) i think your'll owe it to yourselves and your future marriage to give it a try before accepting

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Posted by: JIMBO | 2009-09-30

GOOD QEUSTIONS KELLY......without us not knowing your problem its dificult to comment...but i can assure you sex plays a major roll in marriage if you are just wondering ..wonder no more..because love is not enough on its own without the sex...

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Posted by: Sexy | 2009-09-30

It is NOT advisable to get married unless you can sort out the sexual issues first. Marriage will not help the situation, it will only make things worse. Work on it first, otherwise you will be disappointed. A sexless marriage or a bad sex marriage is doomed.

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Posted by: Kelly | 2009-09-30

Umm I doubt it.
What exactly about your sex life is bad?
Why is the sex not good?
What makes it not good?

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