Posted by: Thembi | 2008-11-07

Is it Normal?

I am marri ed. and we were making love with my husband and i was on top of him and he is gifted down there. My question is while i was having an orgasm i urinated a bit and i did not feel it coming. So i was embarrased as my husband said it put him off. what could be the cause, and also it was the first time happening. we are both in our early 30' s and my baby is one year old. Please assist. Is it a medical problem. Please i would apprciate your help.

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As long as you are certain that it was urine and not you 'ejaculating' (which most women do to a greater or lesser extent); it may be that you could use some kegels (pelvic floor muscle) exercises to strengthen the muscles around the urethra/vagina/anus (these do take some strain during pregnancy and vaginal delivery). Some instructions can be found on the following site:

You might also find it useful to empty your bladder before sex as penetration can lead to increased need to 'go' - so if there is less urine in there, it might be easier to focus on pleasure rather than fear of leaking...

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Posted by: Happy | 2008-11-10

I agree with the G-spot idea ,At the age of 32 I had not experienced this,but when I got with my wonderful husband it did he knew what it was and put me at ease now 7 years later we are still together and very HAPPY!!!

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Posted by: PoPie | 2008-11-07


Thay says if u' re man hit u' re G-Spot, Then there this water that comes from a woman, enough to fill a cup, and most man and woman who never expiriance this thinks is a urine, Just Google G-Spot then u' ll learn about that, It never happened to me , but a freind of mine told me that it happened to her and she was so ashamed but the her man already knew about this and he was so happy.

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