Our expert says:
Niemand is onnodig. Except, maybe, some politicians. YOu know, this sort of very long and complex message is really hard to hear, especially as you use no punctuation, so one has to guess where sentences and phrases begin and end.
It just sounds to me as though you both need to discuss the whole thing calmly together, without the interference of others who seem to be selfish in their intentions
I'm not sure I know what to advise you here, but I'm sure other readers can make helpful suggestions.
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