Our expert says:
He seems to have a very rude, old-fashioned and paternalistic attitude towards marriage. He is not entitled, out of simple good manners if nothing else, to go through your papers or to interfere with your job application, for instance. Its one thing to offer to help IF YOU NEED IT AND WANT IT, and another to interfere for the sake of trying to show his authority.
I find i's a rule in life, that anyone who has to work so hard to try to demonstrate his authority, has none. He is being rude and highly disrespectful towards you.
If this is long-standing behaviour, maybe mariage counselling might help, but he'd probably not see it as necessary. Maybe his family could intervene, if they could recognize the problem and want to, and if he'd want to pay attention to them.
If this is recent behaviour, again, marriage counsellign might help. And one might observe that a spouse who suddenly developes unfair, unearned but deep suspicions of the other spouse's fidelity, is often in fact being unfaithful themselves.
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