Our expert says:
HMm, feeling about as well as can be expected, I suppose !
Children can be very sensible and accepting. The increasing irritation you describe sounds like a change in you, not in him. That list of negatives - are they all horrible things anyone would consider awful, or are they little things that niggle and bother you ? Much sounds like potential scarring from your previous, abusive marriage. Consider seeing a personal psychotherapist / counsellor first to sort out all the unhelpful emotional baggage you may still be carrying from the years of abuse ; and then consider some joint sessions of marriage counselling to help work on any joint issues that might remain, From your own description, the relationship sounds like one which should be able to bring you well-deserved happiness, if you don't sabotage it
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