Our expert says:
I would say that the only way to deal with this is directly - ask him how you can talk to him about your needs and fears in a way that doesn't frighten him...it is important in a relationship that each is able to talk to the other about their feelings and if you can't then the relationship may take serious strain later anyway...rather address it now and try to support him as best you can to try to face his anxiety about talking about such matters...
Claire – SASHA
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