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Posted by: Gail | 2010/06/01

Interest in love / sex

I really love the person i''m with. The problem is that it seems to me he do''s not show interest in makking love or having a good sex.
Sometime i wonder if he is seeing someone els. But we are always together. Even when it comes to doing it, its so liveless. And over in 1 or 2 minutes if not sooner. I really tried my best. I''m so afraid that this would come between us. What should i do?

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Posted by: John | 2010/06/15

Gail get in touch

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Posted by: Turkish | 2010/06/03

A man and his wife go to their honeymoon hotel for their 25th anniversary. As the couple reflected on that magical evening 25 years ago, the wife asked the husband, " When you first saw my naked body in front of you, what was going through your mind?" 

The husband replied, " All I wanted to do was to -|- your brains out, and suck your tits dry." 

Then, as the wife undressed, she asked, " What are you thinking now?" 

He replied, " It looks as if I did a pretty good job." 

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Posted by: Dane | 2010/06/02

Ek en R - Ek vertsaan julle vrestrasies en gevoelings. Ek het myself al die ding oor gekom met my vrou en ek het ook al baie mense om my gesien hoe soo ding gebeur en hulle vreeslik bedonnerd maak veral vrouens. EK help graag vrouens in so n penarie. Vir meer positievieteit en n lekker gesonde seks lewe. Ek help graag en gee goeie advies. As julle met my wil gesles. kan julle my kry op mrdaneatrocketmaildotcom. glo my dit sal die moeite werd wees. Kontak my. Dane!!!!

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Posted by: Anon | 2010/06/02

My girlfriend is the same as you guys man. She has no interest in sex what so ever. We only do it lke once a month if i am lucky. She just lies there lifeless, there is no fondling, kissing, touching, fingering etc. I dont know what to do - its driving me crazy as i love sex and have a high sex drive. Soon i think i will be looking else where - i have no other choice.

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Posted by: R | 2010/06/02

EK, dis seker die mees reguitste en duidelikste oordra van hoe iemand voel wat ek nog hier gelees het. Kan sien jy is ongelukkig en ek moet sê  ek weet hoe dit voel. 10 maande geen seks vir my nie!! Het al baie dinge en kere probeer maar geen reaksie. So ek ken daardie frustrasie maar al te goed.

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Posted by: Bozo | 2010/06/02

Ai dis n moeilike een, gewoonlik is dit meer kere andersom, ons mans wat kla oor te min seks.
Ek stel voor praat met julle mans, vertel hom van jul behoeftes en drange.

As jou man dink hy kan nie perform nie , wat van as hy orale seks op jou doen, dis mos maar net sy tong wat die werk daar doen, en jou so tot n lekker orgasme bring, en dalk daarna jou penetreer.

Sterkte

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Posted by: ek | 2010/06/02

ek is in die selfde posisie, my man doen ook net so 1 minute of 2 dan is hy klaar, hy soen my nie eers terwyl hy dit doen nie, ek voel of ek net daar is om n asblik te wees vir sy eiers wat hy wil leeg maak. ek is nie net by hom vir dit nie en as ek try kinkie wees se hy ja eks jags soos n man, nou wat de hel, mens try hierdei great lover wees maar jou man le eerder laat nag en draadtrek terwyl jy slaap. ekt hom al paar keer so uitgevang, ek dink hyt selfbeeld probleem en dink hy kan nie perform nie, meantime like ek sy tollie baie, maar nee, hy is suining, ek begin nou maar myself meer bevredig, ek sal myself lekker opdress en sexy maak, en as ek sien hy kry nie eers horing nie, sit ek musiek aan in die kamer en dans baie provocative danse en begin myself te bevat en bevoel en so speel ek lekker met myself tot ek dan orgasm op die einde van die speletjie en dan shower ek en gaan slaap, ekt al so baie kere gehoop dit sal turnon vir hom wees maar nee, hy verkies seker maar 5 tackle one. nou wonde ek net hoe gaan ons gesin begin as hy my nie eers kan please tot ek kom nie, of dit n liefdemaak sessie maak nie, hy wil net altyd sy eiers leeg maak. dit maak my so kwaad!!!!!!

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Posted by: sexologist | 2010/06/02

view the following site: www.sexualhealth.co.za for info on how to stimulate a gratifying sex life for both you and your partner.

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