Our expert says:
It is appalling bad manners for ANYONE< family or not, to just turn up, whether at christmas or not, and expect you to welcome tham and care for the,. If you have, apparently, good reasons to go home to your own family, do so. IF he welcomes these cuckoos, let him provide for them. And warn him not to spend lavishly on them, as that money is needed for you and the pair of you, not to greedy hangers on.
Make it very clear to him that you consider this arangement extremely selfish and inconsiderate of him, and you are justifiably outraged. Definitely do not entertain these buzzards. And yes, lock away yopur new appliances and anything else of value or fragile. You can be cool but polite, but have no need to be friendly to them, and explain calmly to them how extremely inconvenient this is to you.
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