Our expert says:
His family are not wise to always assume that everything he says is true, but families do tend to do that. But how is he able to talk to your family like this without them hearing your side of things ?
Its right to focus on what will be best for the kids, but don't assume that it is always best for children to stay in a miserable marriage with lots of fichting and silences. If at some stage he begged you to stay, wouldn't he be open to agreeing if you suggested it, to seeing a marriage counsellor together ? Even if he wants to see it as working with the counsellor to stop you from causing problems for him, it would automatically also involve working on the problems he himself causes, but you don't need to emphasize that aspect when persuading him to agree to it
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