Our expert says:
Its easy to understand both why you feel upset and disappointed, and that you wisely decided that the price was too high for a really small chance of pregnancy.
It is essential that you see a counsellor - that should, I think, be compulsory when such assessments are being done.
I agree that it seems incredibly insensitive of your husband to invite friends over for a braai at this particular time - a braai is NEVER all that important, but its probably an illustration of what we call Denial. Faced with an unpleasant reality, some of us, like you, face facts, feel bad about it, and then work through that and emerge stronger. Others, perhaps like your husband, use Denial, ignoring the reality often in ways that look frankly bizarre to other people, and acting as though it never happened. If I act as though it never happened, then, in a way, it didn't happen.
I doubt that it is intended to be abusive, but is rather a special vaiety of thoughtless, showing HIS weakness in not facing facts. Of course it doesn't make sense, its not supposed to. Its more like ignoring that pile of bills that need to be paid, rather than struggle with them, as actually needs to be done.
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