Our expert says:
OK, let's start by agreeing that you are NOT a failure --- relatiove infertility happens to some of us, male or female, through no fault of our own. And you didn't deliberately become less fertile so as to frustrate your husband. From the sound of it, you may well have Depression which should respond well to medication and/or CBT, and dealing properly with the depression can in fact enhance one's fertility.
The idea of counting your blessings makes excellent sense --- to people who aren't depressed and anxious. And when the problem is one major blessing which you don't have, the exerise if often not comforting.
Think carefully about ways to find the time to see maybe a CBT therapist, as this could help so much
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