Posted by: mickey | 2009-04-07

Incriminating info

Dear doc

My boyfriend of 3 years has a job that makes him travel a lot and he consults with many different companies,everytime he comes home he has a different no.of a differrent woman from every company he goes to,ive confronted him about this and he said it was nothing,anyway i guess when he meets these women he doesnt tell them that he has a relationship and kids at home and because of the kind of work he does they tend to think he is god and is perfect,he talks to them and sends them texts when im not around,ive thought of taking their phone numbers and sending them all a text to tell them exactly what is going on,i mean what woman would want to be involved with a married or seriously involved man? will this ruin my relationship? he doesnt know that i know all this information,he is technologically challenged,he deletes all his messages that these women send him,but i can see all those he sends to them,what do you think i should do?


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Make him promise to ALWAYS tell the women he meets about his relationship, and show them pictures of his kids. IF thy lose interest in him then, he;ll know they were shallow and not worth-while, anyway.
LOL makes a critically important point --- you and the kids are committed --- is he ? It is not believable that ALL his busines contacts are women

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Posted by: Mickey | 2009-04-07

Thanks guys,ill definately talk to him about this and tell him exactly how i feel about it,and ill use your sugesstions.

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Posted by: Miriam | 2009-04-07

i think you should discuss your fears with him. you have every right to worry and be concerned. He should at least tell these women that he is involved and why the heck is he sending them messages anyway???? Hmmm, sounds as you need to lay some rules down. good luck

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Posted by: LOL | 2009-04-07

Just a question, what is a seriously involved relationship? does the fact that you' ve decided to give him kids out of wed lock mean he has committed to you?

ask yourself this : Who is seriously involved in this relationship , him or you???

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