Our expert says:
You're so right that it is high time he grew up and recognized that partying is an empty phase, and he has responsibilities, both to himself and to you while he is in a relationship with you.
You're describing a guy ( and his friends ) who exploit and use you, to enable them to be drunks.
His complain is invalid - its not that you are expecting him NOt to spend time with genuine friends and family, but you'd like him to be considerate of you, and to recognize that he is not really spending time with them other than to get drunk.
You are surely being unrealistic if you expect him to change any time soon - but you are being highly realistic if you decide to end this relationship and leave him to grow up.
Look after yourself, rather than wasting your time and effort on someone with no respect for you and apparently very little respect for himself.
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