Our expert says:
If she loved you ( rather than seeing you as a sugar daddy ) she would not be "constantly" asking you for money. As a friend, you might offer to help with her food or rent, but she should not expect anyone else to pay for her brother's rent or creche - who paid for those when she was unemployed ? She might be able to ask her employer for a partial advance on the pay she will receive later.
If she was simply in financial dificulties, she might be a bit embarassed, but would not start an argument or fight when you try to talk about it. She has no right to just expect you to pay up without understanding the situation and making your own decisions
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