Our expert says:
If you are in love with another man, why are you married ? And if you are married, why are you indulging yourself in love for another man ?
This other man sounds more like a fantasy, able to be perfect because he isn't your real daily partner, and he's more like the subject of emotional masturbation.
See a marriage counsellor together and work on refreshing and enhancing your marriage, and if you have too much spare time in which to indulge in fantasizing about the other guy, keep busy with hobbies and chores and good works with other people. Avoid seeing and speaking to the other man, and when you think of him, recognize this as an unhelpful fantasy, and swat away the thought like a fly
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