Our expert says:
What on earth are you confused about ? You know exactly how wrong any such affair is, and how bad it would be for you, him, your husband and children, and his wife and kids. If he's in a social club --- stop atending it, as this is entirely unnecessary. Also, if he's in a club and doesn't work wioth you at your normal job, there is no reason for exchanging SMS, and that is NOT "business" or work related. This isn't genuine love, and dignifying it with that name only increases the risk. Certainly you should end this right now. YOu would not be able, if you tried to maintain this current development, to control it, and it would surely develop into an affair. And neither of you need that and neither of your spouses deserve it. Wise Owl is entirely correct. Appreciate what you have, and don't gamble it away on a tawdry affair. Stop excusing it by bragging to yoursefl that its not an affair now. You're already being unfaithful in your mind. Are you really so desperate for friendship ? Rather, even with marriage counselling if necessary, invest in your marriage, and leave him to his.
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