Our expert says:
Is it ever "wrong" to love getting attention ? Maybe --- all pleasure isn't unarguably and always great --- taking dangerous drugs may give some temporary pleasure, but its also likely to destroy one's life. Transforming oneself into a very high maintenance person, moving from wanting to expecting to demanding high levels of attention, can simply make you unaffordable, financially or emotionally, for most of the people you would otherwise enjoy being with.
And chating is not entirely defined by physical sex, or even ne cessarily about sex --- if one allows oneself to become emotionally entwined with someone else, withdrawing some of the love from the relationship you are already committed to, that's surely a form of cheating --- though the people enjoying it rarely are prepared to see or concede that. Its a shame i you have no other way to make or meet friends that one particular social club --- but if so, can't you form more friendships, including friendships with women at the club, rather than more exclusively with one man ?
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