Our expert says:
Maybe your instincts and concerns are sensible ? Her past, even if she now seems to be being frank in disclosing details about what happened, is one of peristent instability and poor judgement over a fairly extended period of time. And it seems luxurious not to have gone to Maintenance Court to get awarded proper maintenance payments for each of her children ( that's to benefit the kids, not her, and they should not have suffered because she felt fastidious about doing this )
while she's apparently content to have you pay for them.
Sometimes its not easy to distinguish between strong feelings of pity and love. In the long run this relationship might not be the best for the happiness and well-being of you, her or the children. Having a baby together, if this has not yet been started, would hardly be a good idea at this time. Take your time
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