Our expert says:
Its nice for someone to want to help to supoport his parents ( though if he has any brothers or sisters they should of course share that burden ) --- but i's ridiculous for a man to choose to marry and have children, but expect his wife to support the children, herself and him, and spend his entire salary on his parents. That's iresponsible. And supporting them should mean to ensure the basics of living, not luxuries for a greedy and materialistic couple. And to then expect them to come and live with you --- and what, have you physically care for them as well ? No way.
I agree that you need to draw normal boundaries, and insist that if you are to remain married to him, he must take his share of household expenses and work --- or you can divorce him, and the court will require him to pay full naintenance for his children, in preference to his parents.
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