Our expert says:
Sounds like none of you agreed on ground rules before you moved in. For the mother to enter a flat that belongs to her is understandable abd probably legal, though rude unless pre-arranged. For the brother to steal food is criminal, and for anyone but the mother who owns the place to enter is almost trespass, and certainly extremely bad manners. It sounds as though your husband is a large part of the problem, wanting to appear generous to his sibs. he sounds far more married to his whole family, than he is to you. He is hppy with the situation. YOu, verty understandably, are not. Marriage counselling ?
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