Our expert says:
THen a family group should speak to her, politely and pleasantly, but firmly, and say that she should not make assumptions like this, and just out money into your account mwithout being asked, and then assume she is everyone else's boss. And if she is so childish as to sulk when anyone suggests she is trying to control them ( as obviously she is ) then she should be ignored. And if she "steals" the money in any sense, if it is dirty money and perhaps gotten illegally, then nobody should accept any of it, and return it to her if she sends it. Why is she so scaed someone might tell her husband about this ? What would happen if someone did so ?
She sounds like someone who actually has low self-esteem, and tries to get money ( from anywhere, anyhow ) to try to buy power and if she can't make people like her, she can at least make them bothered by her money and the power it gives her.
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