Our expert says:
Unfortunately I can't give a nice and easy answer to you as it looks confusing and complex - if he's in the mood, you're not and vice versa! Unless what I'm hearing is that he looses his erection...if this is the case then he needs to go for a physical check up as it could be an early sign of a serious health issue (it is not necessarily that he is being unfaithful - afterall, he has said he wants to have sex...and then it's all over). It looks like you need to talk openly and honestly about this dilemma and try to work out some possible ways to address this, including identifying what the problem really is. From your perspective, could you be more affectionate, make more time to be a lover than mother? From his side, does he suffer with erectile problems, or has he lost sexual desire?
I would recommend you check this out with him first, and once you identify where the problems are (yours and his, not just yours OR his), then you can try to address them!
There is no licensed/proven product to assist with a woman's libido, so by all means try over the counter preparations, but the best bet is for you to try to drive your sexual response as best you can (focus on sensation, use lubricant if need, use fantasy if it is okay with you and it helps).
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