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Life not infrequently presents us with such dilemmas. There is no obvious and totally easy and right answer, and much depends on the views of all involved and on what each of you most values. The lottery result is presumably a rare and special opportunity that won't be available beyond a certain point. Will you be able to afford ri re-visit SA fairly often to visit your mother ? When you settle in the USA, will it be possible to arrange a visa for her to live in a similar home there ? What does your mother think about these possibilities ?
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