Our expert says:
Obviously, running any risk of pregnancy in the situation you are both in, was not at all wise, but now you are pregnant, maybe a counsellor can help you both to think through the various alternatives and make a wiser and more informed consent.
But it sounds sensible for you to have decided to keep and raise the child, whereas he sounds as though he's being selfish and cowardly ; and while of course he should express his opinion, he shouldn't be pressurizing you to do something you dont want to do.
It is NOT YOU who are being selfish here. He should be ashamed of thinking only of himself and not providing you with the support you deserve.
And very few parents actually "disown" a child even if they have made some bad decisions as he may have done.
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