Our expert says:
If he is taking drugs and having violent outbursts, you are not playing a victim role, you are indeed a victim. And when you say "still using drugs" His family must be very foolish if they don't know about his drug abuse and violent outbursts. Are his parents perhaps scared of him, too.
He seems to be working the popular excuse that you need to be "mad" to see a shrink or otherwise get treatment, whereas its much more mad NOT to get help you need. Discuss this with your counsellor, and protect yourself and the child above all.
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