Our expert says:
Older sisters sometimes resent a younger sister from birth, as a rival getting, at least at first, more attention than her.
Realize that, though it may very well feel to you that "people" or "everybody" hates you, this is not so - you can't even say that "everybody" hates Bin Laden, though he surely deserves that much more than you do. So some people dislike you ? Or don't noticeably like you ? It happens. This troubles you because you have chosen the viewpoint that they MUST like you, that there MUST be something awful wrong with you if they don't like you. And that's not so.
Also, very often the reason someone doesn't like you lies entirely within themselves, and may have nothing to do with you.
In my experience, NOBODY is liked by everybody ( if it seems to be so, then something is awully wrong, and you'd need to worry about why they're all buttering you up !). And nobody, however awful, is disliked by everybody.
Do see a therapist to work through your problems, which are more abouyt low self-esteem than anything at all unlikeable about you.
I remember the wise words of a good friend, years back, when I was moaning about how people didn't appreciate me. "Don't worry", she said, " There are large sections of Uzbhekistan where they haven't made up their minds yet. "
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