Our expert says:
Not crazy, but very foolish. ( and remember, if he has been sleeping around, whether with men or women, the risk to you of sexual diseases including HIV, is much increased ). Its not that he might be bisexual but that he is promiscuous that greatly increases the danger.
It would be extremely stupid and cruel to the child to ask him or arrange for him to "give you a baby". A BABY IS NOT GLUE ! NEVER EVER use a child to try to stick together any relationship with problems. This is hugely unfair to the child, and it never works.
You do NOT "really need to have this baby", and this poor baby does not need to be had.
IF you have good reason to seriously want to improve what sounds like a pretty limited relationship, see a couples counsellor together and ask him directly about the rumours you hear.
Do a lot more talking, and a lot less baby-making. If you can[t frankly and honestly talk together, that is not mutual love nor a relationship that could succeed.
Why are you so desperate to cling to your fantasy about this relationship ? Is there really no other man you could get to actually Know ? He is NOT "your life" ; you fantasize that he is, but that doesn't make it so.
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