Our expert says:
It's a pretty typical tactic, to avoid dealing with the mistakes he made today, to raise issues about something you did years ago. The puzzle to mos readers of your message, would be why you are still his fiancee, and why you accept his annoying habits.
Have you asked him whether you have been so magnificant for the past 8 years, that the only things he can find to argue about are what you did 8 years ago ? What a compliment !
Some people have low selfoesteem, some just happen to be as feeble as they think they are.
The aim is for you to be a partner / spouse, not a therapist treating his low self-esteem and other problems.
Stop trying to prove yourself to him, as that just encourages his meddling and paranoia. How about him proving himself to you ? If he leaves and stays left, maybe you won't have lost as much as you think.
When there are obvioujs problems and someone refuses to take part sincerely in counselling, that shows they don't want to solve problems.
Even monsters can be nice some of the time - that's not the question, really.
Some of these problems can arise more easily when you start a relationship as young as you did.
Feel free to let this end, you surely deserve someone more mature and committed to problem-solving than this guy.
And maybe Honest is right about how this might help the poor dog's digestive problems !
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