Our expert says:
A boy who still thinks it wise to go ou drinking with friends and stay out late, is not man enough to get married. And visiting other girls at 3 am ? There's no way you could "read too much" into that. It's very clear. He isn't visiting them to play chess or listen to gospel music. This is nothing like someone who deserves your love or marriage. And he risks picking up HIV and other STD and infecting you, thus risking your life. You sounds much too sensible to marry such a boy. See a counsellor, if necessay, to help you develop the strength to look after yourself and your children, and leave this boy to grow up, on his own.
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