Our expert says:
Well, I won't disagree with your assessment. The cheating was dumb, and not using a condom was dumb.You may well have an STD, and should refrain from having sex with your husband until you have seen and consulted the doc.
With your doctor be entirely frank and truthful - nobody ever benefits from lying to their doctor, and he is supposed to keep such confessions confidential.What matters first is whether you have an infection, if so what, and how to treat it, and whether your husband can have caught it, and whether he needs treatment.
Your lover presumabl knows what's wrong with him, though you may want to call and remind him. More to the point, your husband deserves to knwo that he may be innocently infected, and may need treatment
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