Our expert says:
Relationships with ery abusive people never end in any way except badly. OK it was indeed a huge mistake to have become involved with such an unpleasant person, and you have done well to move out of his life and back into your own. By now he is probably busy making someone else miserable.
He sounds far too selfish and preoccupied with his own needs, to have been or to be capable of an affectionate relationship with anyone else.
LEARN from such experiences - don't pine for the guy he might have been, or who you thought he was or wish he might become - be grateful to be away from the guy he actually is.
Nobody, not even you, could miss that guy you are missing some fantasy of who he may have been. Get back to the real qworld, and take your time with the new guy, not plunging in but becoming friends before deciding whether you both want it to go further than that
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