Our expert says:
As so often in questions of this type, I must ask, not "why do you love him ", as that is not a rational and planned decision, but "WHAT do you love about someone who places such firm limits on his relaionships. If he sees love as something to be a victim of, he won't risk loving ; while cheerfully making you a victim of love with him, and perhaps feeling this is proving his point ?
Frankly, what are you really likely to get out of continuing a relationship with this guy, other than disappointment and hurt, and distraction from better chances with someone else ?
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