Our expert says:
Sometimes you don't see it coming because your partner keeps it secret and internal ; sometimes the fact that for whatever reason you don't see it looming when it is apparent to others, may be part of the problem.
But anyhow, you;re now probably in a situation of grief. THis is the horrible but normal reaction of normal people when they lose something dear to them - which can include the person and also what you had and what you had hoped for, in the relationship.
Don't allow yourself to feel too hopeless, as things will improve, improbable though that might seem. and you need to think of your daughter and her continuing need for you. Do seriously consider seeing a counsellor to help you to work through these feelings and concerns more fruitfully
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